The Kavorka
Content warning: sex negativity
Being sexualized is traumatizing enough. Then there are men who sexualize me, while also fearing their own desires. They create entire belief systems to rationalize their shame, calling them “religion” or “spirituality” or “purity,” and then mansplain these concepts to me as if they’re new.
As if I don’t know the pain that sexual desire can cause more intimately than they ever will.